HOW TO AVOID GETTING USED BY YAHOO BOYZ AND HOW TO SHUN CULTISM
HOW TO AVOID GETTING USED BY YAHOO BOYZ AND G+ MONSTERS IN SCHOOL
First i would like to talk about the slay mamas and queens who wants a car from a fellow student its unimaginable to get stuffs from somebody and you don't know the source especially this celebration seasons, people are been used for ritual everyday don't form Porsche you might not get away with it twice.
Here are some few steps to help you out.
1. As much as you love parties as a female in the university the best option for you is to reduce the way you party to the brim or you create friends that you never had idea of creating.
2. Be careful about visiting people you don't know for the first time, its better you meet them in an open place so you don't get hurt and make your decisions about the person but remember to stay safe
3. Stop collecting gifts that are given for a return of favour sometimes we forget that people sow in us just to reap their selfish interest so be careful
4. Be contented with what you have cause that way you learn how not to relay on people your spouse is not an ATM machine so support yourself.
5. You can get yourself working even as a student because if you need more money you have to work for it which will make you spend wisely not just in school but in the future
HOW TO AVOID GETTING INTO TROUBLE WITH CULTIST IN SCHOOL
You are about gaining admission admission or you have already gained admission into the University, I want to seize this opportunity to congratulate you on your educational pursuit as you are about to enter a world different from your secondary school days. You see, In Nigerian universities, there are groups of every kind. You would find reading groups, prayer groups, social groups and cultist groups. Be aware that cultists group or cultism is a very bad group which I can promise you that you don’t want to join. These cultist groups in Nigerian universities are known to be deadly and dangerous. Their members are always looking for the next available trouble to find, fighting, harassing and stealing from innocent students as well as forcefully recruiting new intakes especially from freshers.
I will seize this opportunity to inform you on how to make cultism or cultists stay away from you easily.
Things You Will Do To Stay Away From Cultism:
1. Dress code/colour: the wear and the colour of your dress code is very important. I can tell you authoritatively that so many innocent people are harrased in universities because of this. There are some colour combinations you should avoid, colors like yellow and yellow, yellow and black, red and black, white and red e.t.c should be avoided as much as possible. These colours have different meanings to cultists as they use these colours to identify themselves. Also, avoid wearing clothes with skulls, goat head, eye of Horus,” the all seeing eye on a pyramid” etc. Avoid handbands of all kinds. Instead, wear a watch to compliment your dress code.
2. Face your studies: This is the reason why your parents sent to the university and the reason why you are there- to face your studies. If you are the typethat is always found in social gatherings, clumsy and looking for trouble, it won’t be long when a popular cult in your university will come knocking at your door. So, mind your books.
3. Mind the way you flock around with pretty girls One thing is sure, if you are a very bright student in your department, especially if you are a guy, its normal for the pretty girls and chicks to glue themselves to you. Funny enough, this doesn’t go well for cultists. They don’t want to share pretty girls with anyone whether dull or bright. Just try to make it business with these girls. Avoid private meetings with them because they are been watched by cultists and you might fall victim.
4. Avoid people with slangs and coded languages: In Nigeria, every nook and cranny have their slangs that its members understands. A lot of students have fallen prey to this coded language without knowing. Just because you are in the university does not mean that you should use coded language or slangs to communicate. Its better to be safe than sorry, as you dont know who is who that might decode your language and mistake you for a cultist.
5. Hand signs and Hand shakes: There are some hand shakes and signs used and understood by cultists. These signs have different meanings. Some undergraduates use this hand shakes innocently but don't know the gravity of what they are doing.. What if 2 cult group are at war and u innocently greeted a friend with a handshake that belong to a group of cult and member of their opponents is there watching u .nwannem Oyo is ur name..
6. Respect yourself: You got admission into this University, and on a certain day, you fought with someone you don’t know. He tells you ” You don’t know who I am, You will see what i will do to you in this school.” Four days later, you were beaten black and green when going for night class, giving a swollen cheek and bloody nose as a gift to mind your business in the school. This scenario is common, worse cases ends up in death. Its better you mind your business. Avoid arguments and places that are prone to fights. It will do you good on the long run. Don’t underestimate anyone.
7. Avoid excessive Partying: Now that you are in the university, there are no parents to tell you what you should do or what not do to do. Partying is part of the social life in the University. Avoid its excesses as cultist are always found in such areas and gatherings, most especially night parties.
8. Give ceaser what belongs to ceaser: Life is once. If for any reason you bump into them or have issues with them one way or the other, please and please give them whatever they ask for, its better safe than sorry, your life is worth more than everything you currently have. Even if it is your iPhone 6, just give them. ( I know this very point is subject to criticism, but its welcome)
9. If you are a rich kid, tell no one It is good to be born rich especially when you can afford all the necessities of life. The only problem i have with rich kids in the university is the way and manner in which they flaunt their wealth making them easy targets for these cultists. I am not saying you shouldn’t enjoy your money but please, stop making it too obvious. Stay discreet by telling no one.
10. Avoid political positions in school: Trust me, students occupying most political positions in universities (SUG), are mostly cultists. I know some people would say I am blabbing, but thats the real fact. If you want to avoid being tracked by cultist in your school, avoid popularity and positions by all means. (Subject to criticism).
Conclusion
The tips above are just a few of what would guide you on how to avoid being monitored by cultist in your universities. While there are situations where some of this tips may not be valid, some people choose to live the churchious and holy kind of life to ward them off.
I strongly believe that if you follow this tips you should be safe. If for any reason you have gotten into trouble already with a cult guy or girl please beg them furiously, even roll on the floor. Don’t form saint or strong guy because these cultists love trouble. If after you’ve begged and they still disturbing, seek advise from your guidance
counsellor.
Finally, learn how to stay out of trouble while in the university.
Write up by Uche David Odinaka
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